In this episode of Level Yourself Up, I talk about how striving for perfection can block your growth. I share a personal story about tiling my bathroom and how the frustration of not doing it perfectly taught me a bigger lesson about patience, humility, and progress. The goal isn’t to be flawless but to keep moving forward, even when the process feels messy.
The Lesson Behind the Tile
I started this podcast to help people focus on steady growth. This week reminded me that trying to be perfect only leads to frustration. As I worked on my bathroom tile, I caught myself comparing my work to YouTube professionals who made it look effortless. But the truth is, every skill takes time. When I let go of my unrealistic standards, the work started to flow. Progress began when I gave myself permission to fail.
Key Takeaways
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Progress happens when you stop chasing perfection.
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Being too critical on yourself slows your learning.
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Comparison to others kills creativity and confidence.
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Giving yourself grace opens space for improvement.
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Failure teaches lessons perfection never will.
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Self-forgiveness is a daily practice.
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Growth requires patience and responsibility.
Weekly Reflection
Take a few moments this week to write and think through these questions:
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Where am I being too hard on myself right now?
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What can I do to forgive myself in that area?
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How can I let grace and mercy guide my actions this week?
These questions help you reset your mindset and focus on what matters: consistent progress and peace of mind.
Final Thoughts
This episode is a reminder to take a step back and breathe. Ask yourself where you’re being too hard on yourself. Write down three areas where you need to let go. Then, make the choice to forgive yourself and move forward with grace. Remember, it’s not about being perfect. It’s about showing up, doing your best, and learning as you go.
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YouTube: Level Yourself Up
00:00 Introduction to Progress Over Perfection
02:59 The Struggles of DIY and Self-Criticism
06:09 Learning from Mistakes and Embracing Growth
08:58 Encouragement to Forgive Yourself and Move Forward
